early marriage

my thoughts on early marriage. 

a simple thought would be :

i don't think it's a negative thing if you know your part and duty as a husband or a wife. it'll definitely be a happily ever after marriage. even though you're under age or currently studying or still need your parents for financial support and people think you're not suitable to be someone's wife or husband. 

screw you negative thinking people!

but a longer one would be :

i must say that i do not oppose this early marriage thingie. it's a good thing! many people have done it, recommend it and absolutely happy with it. 

some might think that you're too young to be married. that you need too live life, get a job, finish your study, etc. 

it's your choice and if you want to get married than just do it. even though the procedure it quite hard, i know. just do it. pray that everything will turn out well and be happy with it. easy?

NO? people will understand that it's not a bad thing. they're just not used to it. it takes time but if you feel that this choice is the best and insyaAllah everything will be OKAY ^^ in the end. 

good things will come. 

personally, i'm not ready to be married. i do wish to have an early marriage but i feel like i'm not fully prepare. i don't think that i can take a good care of my husband or myself. there are things that i have to do and yes, preparation is vital and it's a long way to go for me i'm afraid. 

i can't imagine myself being with someone right now. and that someone will be the one

i think i'll just do what i do now and when the time comes, just say alhamdulillah and smile :)

that's my thoughts. 

yours?