judgemental.

hah!

assalamualaikum. 

er. lama tak update. 

hi. i've been wanting to share this for quite some times. so here i go.

last few weeks i've been in my literature class which is twice a week to be exact, i had admit there is so many things that i know but i didn't dug deeper and grab that knowledge. basically, i just take them lightly before. the reason is, whatever that i know generally about something is only on the surface level where i ignore or take little notice of the real meaning or motives. which is sad.

i'm 19 and i only know this now and i feel stupid because i know stuff but i still do it because i don't feel like it's not that important or i just don't have the interest to care of others.

what i'm trying to explain here is the fact that we judge to easily and i'm not gonna talk about those judgement on a large scale. let us start with the small one. 

my lecturer said to us that we should always consider the other people side of story. i'm trying to put you yourself as the main character because you are the main character in your story. so you know your story but don't know others until you ask them or you find out yourself. until then, you can't really can't write your own conclusion on other's story when you don't even know their them. 

you're not the writer. they live their life. 

when we judge, it is sort if like we are not allowing the other people to make their own path. to change or to be better in life. maybe they wanted to change. maybe they had tried many many times but we are the one who pushed them away just because it does not suit our taste or the community. 

of course, what's bad is bad. nothing will change there but what's bad is not the doer but the things that they do. accept them as a human being. if they do bad things, it means they can do good as well. open your arms as wide as you can and know their story. 

it might not be as well written as our story so why don't we help them write and not force them to. 

hm?