stories rumors stories

i try not to judge when i heard something new because hearing from a single person, two or more is never enough for me to conclude that it's true. people have different definition of things and it might not be the same as the true story. kan kan?

so it's unfair for me to not investigate the matter. if i do care to do a further investigation, i would. but if i don't think it's worth the time, i would just forget about it and carry on with my life. usually i would just ignore.

you can judge. but you have to know the whole story first and you need to know what to judge and why. you can't simple take the truth and throw it on the floor as if it's yours. no! you have to take a good care of it now that you know the truth. either you keep it and do nothing or keep it and help without making a commotion. try not to spread the story. it might worsen the situation. 

you would not like it if everyone knows your problem and even when it's already solved, people kept on talking about it and think that the problem is still there. tak suka kan?

so please. be smart and be wise. if you can't handle it, just shut your ears and ignore the stories. tambah lagi bila orang tu tak berkaitan dengan awak. 

kalau berkaitan, tolong dengan cara yang betul. nak menolong pun ada guideline tau. 

k?