Saturday, November 21, 2015

DON'T TAKE IT PERSONALLY. PLEASE

I'm in my final year of my study and I have a lot to say to some of you who knows me. (k, please don't be offended. or be offended. I don't mind really) 

1. When you're in a group or working in a group, you need to at least contribute something to the group. It's not fair for everyone else when you decided to not participate. 

2. If you're dissatisfied with someone, please don't make a big deal out of it and let everyone know about your problem. Unless you really need a second or third opinion or your problem requires you to share it with everyone. 

3. It's extremely awkward to not say sorry when you messed up. Just say it

4. It's extremely embarrassing when people know that you messed up but you act like nothing happen. Just say you're sorry. Please

5. Sometimes, you need to focus on what's going on around you (I'm talking to you aliaa)

6. Be nice to people, like generally, because you never know when you need their help

7. When people ask you something, give an effort to answer it or at least pretend like you care

8. Don't be mean. Sometimes you don't realize how mean you can be. 

9. Don't ever forget other people's kindness to you

10. When your friends did something terrible, don't abandon them or make them feel bad about it. They can change so help them, don't ignore them. 

11. You need to learn how to be independent

12. You can't always depend on your friends. They have their own life too

13. It's okay to be silly sometimes

14. Don't jump into conclusion. Investigate

15. Don't freak out over small problems that can easily be solve. Calm down

16. If you don't like someone's attitude, take time to have a one on one conversation with them and solve it

17. It can't be helped but if you can, try not to talk bad about other people. Especially your close friends

18. Don't take advantage of other people's kindness

19. Everyone has their own limits. 

20. Excuses are okay but don't overuse it. Once or twice is acceptable