okay. let's talk
boy and girls. what's the rush?
i've seen you on facebook, on twitter and stuff. i've read most of your status updates and tweets.
most of them are about love. i just don't get it. you're young and you've been worrying about your love life more than other things such as, i don't know, maybe your education?
i mean, why would you even care about that? that love thingie. yes, love is important but your definition of love are so weak that it didn't even sound like love at all. love is everything my dear don't you see it? why would you narrow it down?
hm.
relationship is a hard thing to deal with. when you're too insecure with your relationship and other people who might try to steal your piece of happiness, that's when you narrow your view of love down.
you don't pay attention to whatever you're doing. that's is why your relationship didn't work. this is not a game to play. you have to know that you're taking care of person who have actual feelings. they are not teddy bears that you and play with. NO. this is not all happy. you have to be serious sometimes.
too young to think about all of the serious stuff? then why labeled yourself married or engaged in you facebook. or be in a relationship at the first place? aren't you going to marry that person? no? then what is your reason for being in that relationship? hm?
what do you possibly want from that relationship that you can get elsewhere?
hm.
i am shocked that you would even sell yourself out for that so called 'love' that you've been craving for. really? you would go that far? come on. don't you know how to appreciate love as it is? you're young. you would go though a whole lot of experience and you would learn a lot of things. you should live life. get to know yourself first. learn things that you don't even know exist. then go and search for love. the right one.
i am young too. i'm just 19. you might think that 19 is just like "yeah i'm an adult and i can do whatever i want!" no. big no. once you realize that there are actually other human being that are older than you and much much wiser than you, you would not feel old at all. you would realize how small you are. and stupid. yes, because they have lived years and years way ahead of you and you're just beginning to learn what they have learnt. so you don't know everything yet.
hm.
for someone who have been through what you're going through now, i don't really advise you to be in a relationship. you know what i mean, the kind of love that you've been looking for now. don't do it because your friends do it too. but i wont stop you from falling in love. i can't. for that, you just have to look at it a couple of time to make sure whether it is a true love or it is just another fake love. think.
love is a beautiful thing and if you've experienced it, the true love, then you're lucky. till then, love your creator, Allah, love your rasul, love your mom and dad, your family, everyone around you. love them. it is the best love that you could ever get.
go and learn. learning is not all about the boring books. there are many ways to learn.
put yourself first and when you're ready, you're ready.
no hard feelings :)
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